The best way to react after being fired on the spot

  • Posted on Dec 18, 2023

Here’s what Simu Liu did and how it went. He also has a message for those in the back:

“๐‘ต๐’ ๐’‚๐’Ž๐’๐’–๐’๐’• ๐’๐’‡ ๐’Ž๐’๐’๐’†๐’š ๐’Š๐’” ๐’˜๐’๐’“๐’•๐’‰ ๐’„๐’๐’Ž๐’‘๐’“๐’๐’Ž๐’Š๐’”๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ ๐’š๐’๐’– ๐’—๐’Š๐’”๐’Š๐’๐’ ๐’‡๐’๐’“ ๐’š๐’๐’–๐’“๐’”๐’†๐’๐’‡. ๐‘ป๐’‰๐’† ๐’‘๐’–๐’“๐’”๐’–๐’Š๐’• ๐’๐’‡ ๐’‚ ๐’…๐’“๐’†๐’‚๐’Ž โ€“ ๐’€๐‘ถ๐‘ผ๐‘น ๐’…๐’“๐’†๐’‚๐’Ž โ€“ ๐’‚๐’ˆ๐’‚๐’Š๐’๐’”๐’• ๐’‚๐’๐’ ๐’๐’…๐’…๐’”โ€ฆ.๐’•๐’‰๐’‚๐’•โ€™๐’” ๐’˜๐’‰๐’‚๐’• ๐’๐’Š๐’‡๐’† ๐’Š๐’” ๐’‚๐’๐’ ๐’‚๐’ƒ๐’๐’–๐’•โ€

๐—ฆ๐—ถ๐—บ๐˜‚ ๐—Ÿ๐—ถ๐˜‚, a former Deloitte accounting worker and actor (played in Barbie, Shang-Chi And The Legend Of The Ten Rings, TV show Kim’s Convenience, etc) ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐˜€ ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ from his fancy job.

He used the circumstance to self reflect and pursue HIS dreams, not his parents dreams.

There’s SO much for learn from his experience.

โœ”๏ธ Failure is a rite of passage to success.
โœ”๏ธ You need to follow your own dreams!
โœ”๏ธ Sometimes a “failure” is a blessing/opportunity in disguise
โœ”๏ธ When life hits you hard, don’t rush into something else. Reflect first and make a plan. Sometimes it can take years. But when you arrive – you’ll be glad you believed in yourself! 

Below is what he shared in an Instagram post:

“I was lead into my managing partnerโ€™s office at Deloitte and told that they were terminating my employment effective immediately.

A lady from HR and a security guard escorted me back onto the floor in front of the entire open concept office. It was so quiet you could hear a pin drop.

Nobody moved, offered a whisper of encouragement or even looked in my direction.

I fought back tears of humiliation, grabbed my things, and never looked back.

Ten years ago I thought my life was over.

I had wasted countless time and money that my family had invested in me. Years of schooling, gifted programs, trying to live up to my parentsโ€™ expectations. It all came crashing down in an instant…

My goodness, what an incredible journey itโ€™s been.

I spent four of those years running around like a headless chicken trying to figure out how to break into the industry, struggling with credit card debt and taking any job I could.

Another three years were spent trying to break into Hollywood, sinking my precious life savings into something many would call a pipe dream. Itโ€™s really only been these past three years that anything Iโ€™ve done has begun to bear any fruit.

I know luck has played a substantial role in my successes but I am sure that if I hadnโ€™t been cast in two life-changing roles, Iโ€™d still find purpose and meaning in the pursuit of success on my own terms. Not my parentsโ€™ definition – MINE.

I donโ€™t know who needs to hear this right now, but no amount of money is worth compromising your vision for yourself. The pursuit of a dream- YOUR dream- against all oddsโ€ฆ thatโ€™s what life is all about.

To Paul Gibbon and the offices of Deloitte Toronto; sincerely, honestly, THANK YOU.

You did for me what I never had the courage to do myself; you destroyed a life that I was building for someone else, so that I could finally begin to build a life for me.”

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